Monday, January 9, 2012

Nurture~

"Then our sons in their youth will be like well-nurtured plants, and our daughters will be like pillars carved to adorn a palace."
Psalm 144:12 NIV

We spent a beautiful and fast weekend with our girl in the city.
It was a much needed winter-wonder getaway.

We did all things city.
Eating.
Shopping.
Playing.
Vintage treasure hunting.

Swimming.....

Not to mention.....a list of tiny home projects that needed done by her daddy.
The girls rent a cute, but quirky, and old bungalow, in the heart of the city.

And as we drove home late last night, whilst little boys slept, we couldn't help but discuss the treasure that has become our daughter.

I'm sure.
Some of you must be thinking......
Wasn't she always a treasure?

Perhaps.
But mother-daughter relations are tricky.
Sometimes prickly.
Sometimes painful.
And always evolving.

And at this stage in my life..... and hers.
I can tell you what took me years and years to learn.

If I, would have quit trying to polish all of her rough edges, on my own, for oh so long.
We, would have had a much more pleasant time in the evolution of it all.

Needless to say.
The world is her oyster, and it is clear to her dad and I.
That she is becoming quite the pearl.

And because I mentioned in my last post about my "word" for the year.
It's only fair to tell you all.....
That I actually have TWO.
And I mentioned it, as well.

I am passionate about it.

Just as I am about this little boy at the top.
My other two boys.
My girl.
My husband.
My life.

And plan to use it accordingly.

There is not a day that goes by that this word does not apply.

Nurture~


Sharing With: Time-Warp Wife and {Titus 2}SDays.

8 comments:

At The Picket Fence said...

There really is so much meaning in that word, isn't there? And I think it has more layers to it than most people think. It always reminds me of another favorite word of mine...rooted. I'm so glad you shared about your precious pearl of a daughter and are passing on the lessons to those of us with younger pearls. :-) I will have to fight those same tendencies, I know and I appreciate the wisdom from those who have gone before me!
Vanessa

Cinnamon said...

Welcome back. Oh I bet her little bungalow is perfect!! How precious to have that time together. I love reading how God has brought your two hearts together! Is there any greater gift than to say "she is my friend" about your sweet dtr?

You are blessed!

~Cinnamon

Jennifer said...

Thank you for sharing.. as a young mama of a daughter, I need to remember this lesson. :)

Kristin said...

Vanessa~ Isn't that the truth?
Rooted....now that's a great word, too! It's so tough being a mama, a patient one at that, as our girls are growing up and learning about themselves.
Thanks for commenting.
XO

Cinnamon~ It is perfect! They have it set up so cute and decorated on a dime. Life is so much better as friends than foes. ;o)
XO

Jennifer~ I wish somebody would have reminded me more, when I was younger. Thanks for commenting! I know you come by regularly and I appreciate the time it takes to comment.
XO
Kristin

Amanda said...

happy you had this time away.

yes nurture!

and I agree, rooted is spiffy too!!!

Melinda said...

Vintage treasure hunting?! Count me in! Thank you for the words of wisdom on raising young women! Mother-daughter relations are tricky and I try to do too much polishing myself.

Jenn said...

Great words for the new year! Loved the insight on your daughter. Something I will hide away in my heart!

Barbara said...

I have three daughters, Kristin, all so very different.
And, if I would analyze our past relationship as you have, I'm certain that I could think that I could have done things better with one or with the other.

But, the fact of the matter is, that I did my best at the time.

And I have to accept that.

Your daughter is what she is today because of the past.
Remember, God is in charge.

Each of my daughters is gift from God.
I am only getting close to my eldest daughter now that she is a mother herself. I was blessed with my younger daughter, who endeared herself to me at an early age. We have always been close.
And, it took a rare medical diagnosi, that I would not wish on anyone, for my middle daughter to become close.
Her teenage years are best forgotten.
But we know how fortunate that we are to have her in our lives, and she is constantly worried about me, something she never would have done in younger days.
So, continue to enjoy your daughter. The future holds so much for both of you.
Barbara